Water=Emotional balance
How we support one another is very important.
We need healthy support, we are all tribal beings
and have a deep need for a group connection... it's how we grow...
through one anther's experiences
& support through our own.
Whether acknowledged or not, those of us who become depressed &/or self-destructive
are very sensitive people.
So many of us feel alienated by the highly commercialized ideals of today.
Most of us are stressed out, moving way too fast, trying to do way too much,
and are in a constant state of crisis about money or jobs or the lack of them
or whatever we feel will fill the void inside.
Some of us feed on this and are, what's now being phrased as:
"Adrenaline Junkies".
Some of us have a fear of things going well...
because it means something bad will soon follow, this is being called:
"Happiness Anxiety".
All this & more, is an big factor that's often times is a cause for many peoples depression
&/or self-destructive behaviors, unconsciously messing up anything in life that goes well.

Or some of us go from one to the other... & it's called:
"Manic Depression".

Lots of labels for our fears particular expression.
(our coping methods)

Seeing ourselves in a sphere of a-bun-dance
surrounded by all the things that can help
put us back into balance & is a very empowering visualization.
We are surrounded inside a: Sphere of A-bun-dance
Then, we will let go of scarcity mentality or never-enoughness... inwardly or outwardly.
All addictions, self destructive behaviors, and "dis-eases" come from fear;
a scarcity mentality, and lack of trust in the way the universe

&/or* _________works... through an unlimited a-bun-dance of love.

(*Please fill in the blank for your Spirit/Creator/God of choice)

What would it be like if we were taught to deal with our pain constructively & were truly given support for who we are?
(For more information on this, check out the book: The Optimistic Child by Martin E. Seligman, Ph.D)
We all need this healthy support system that friends & families are mean to give us.
But if they never got it themselves, how could they have known
the point is to be a better person because of it.

 How many of us ever got a support system
that didn't have all kind of conditions attached to it?
 

Unconditional love
is the only kind of support that teaches us
how to find our way through it all.
Though these words have been over used by some
*"New Age" messengers...
it truly is an important idea to fully understand.
*None of these ideas are new, however technology has increased
our communications abilities (the internet etc.) & all is cumulative.
Imagine us all...
teaching our children that life is about how we do, what we do...
our joyous life health rituals, honest quest for learning
& gratitude for all the blessings in our lives,
continually attracts what's best for all for us
in the name of peacelderhood
sobeit...
 

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