2. Let them know that the soul growth within each concerned, is more important than being "right".  Letting go of judgments comes as we understand that we're all just doing the best we can at this "growing up" thing, continuing all throughout our lives. If we use our intuitions & inspirations toward connection & healing as we go.. focusing on our own soul growth & see everyone's soul growth as the top priority in all interactions. With this as an intention.. judgments let go of themselves.

3. Understand that the relationship between people, is it's own being, (& can one day be represented in a physical child between lovers... or a business between partners) & needs to be cared for by those involved with it.  Apologize to the relationship, when trust has been put into question by either or both involved, that way the emphasis is on growth, not on blame. Having a shared vision ("God is a respecter of purposes not persons." Edgar Cayce) is the only thing that makes small things unimportant& bigger things bearable, because you handle them together.

4. Focus on what can help out the other, in actions.. not so much speech, when ever possible.  BE what you are asking the other to be. If you ask your heart it will say, to continually offer more love & compassion in times of need. This is the natural reaction when you love someone, and it becomes a naturally reciprocal thing in healthy relationships.  The more we give, the more we are able to be in a giving relationship. A good life of love & kindness is it's own reward.